The year since your last birthday

Look back over your own year, not the calendar one.

  • Walk through the year since your last birthday, season by season.
  • Name the moment this past year that felt most like growing up, at any age.
  • Talk about a birthday wish from last year and what happened to it.
  • Describe a new place, person or habit this year of your life brought in.
  • Talk about the week this past year you'd least like to repeat, and what it taught you.
  • Talk about something you learned this year that you'd have argued with a year ago.

The age you are now

Birthdays are a good moment to notice what this age is actually like.

  • Talk about what you thought this age would look like when you were a child.
  • Describe something about getting older that's turned out better than you expected.
  • Name a thing you care less about at this age, and say why that's a relief.
  • Talk about the age you feel inside, and why that number.
  • Describe what you'd tell yourself on your birthday ten years ago.
  • Describe how you're spending today, and whether it's how you wanted to.

Birthdays past

Old birthdays hold a lot of detail if you go looking.

  • Tell the story of a childhood birthday you remember clearly.
  • Describe a birthday present you still think about, and who gave it.
  • Talk about a birthday that didn't go to plan and what you remember about it now.
  • Describe how birthdays were marked in your home when you were growing up.
  • Name a person who has never once forgotten your birthday.

The year ahead

Point the next year of your life somewhere, gently.

  • Name one thing you'd like to do before your next birthday that you've never done.
  • Talk about what you'd like to find easier by this time next year.
  • Describe how you'd like to spend your next birthday, from morning to night.
  • Say one thing you'd like the next year of your life to be about.
  • Talk about a promise you'd like to make to yourself today.

How to use these prompts

Record on the day itself or the evening before, when it's quiet. Using the same few prompts every year makes the answers easy to compare.

  • Play last year's birthday entry before you start, if you have one
  • Say each prompt aloud and answer four or five
  • Keep a few prompts the same every year
  • End with one line for your next birthday

Questions about birthday reflection

What should I journal about on my birthday?

Where you are now, what the past year brought and what you'd like the next one to hold. A few minutes of talking covers it, and the entry gets more interesting every year you add one.

Is a birthday reflection the same as an end-of-year review?

Close, but it follows your own calendar. A birthday marks a personal year, so it's a good time to look at how you've changed. The end-of-year prompts cover the calendar year.

How do I make a birthday reflection a yearly habit?

Keep a few prompts the same every year so the answers line up. Listening to last year's entry first gives you something to answer back to.

Talk to next year's you

On your birthday, On this day in Dawn Light shows what you said on the same date in earlier years. Record this year's entry and it will be there next time.

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