Looking at what you did

Start with a real event from the last few days. Reflection is easier when there's something concrete to look at.

  • Describe something you said yes to recently that you wanted to say no to.
  • Talk about a time this week you changed your mind, and what changed it.
  • Tell the story of a moment today when you were short with someone, and what was underneath it.
  • Describe a task you keep putting off, and say honestly what you're avoiding in it.
  • Walk through how you spent your free time this week, and whether it felt like rest.
  • Talk about a habit you started without meaning to.

Noticing patterns

These prompts look for what keeps happening. Answers make more sense when you compare them a few weeks apart.

  • Describe the kind of day that leaves you drained, and the kind that leaves you full.
  • Talk about a complaint you've made more than once lately, and what it's really about.
  • Name a situation where you always end up feeling the same way, and walk through how it usually goes.
  • Describe what you reach for when you're bored, and what you reach for when you're stressed.
  • Talk about a piece of advice you give other people but don't take yourself.
  • Describe what you do when nobody is expecting anything from you.

What you value

Values show up in what you spend time and money on, more than in what you'd write on a list.

  • Talk about an opinion you defend loudly, and the doubt about it you keep to yourself.
  • Name a rule you live by that nobody taught you directly, and say where it came from.
  • Talk about the last thing you spent money on that felt completely worth it.
  • Name a quality that bothers you in other people, and say whether you ever show it yourself.
  • Talk about what you'd want people to say you were like when you weren't in the room.
  • Describe something you're proud of that nobody else knows about.

Checking in with yourself

Use these when you want to know where you stand right now.

  • Talk about what's taking up the most room in your head this week, and whether it deserves that much.
  • Say what you need more of right now and what you need less of.
  • Describe a worry from a month ago, and how it turned out.
  • Talk about something you've been pretending not to know.
  • Talk about where your attention went this week compared with where you meant it to go.
  • Talk about the question you'd most like someone to ask you right now, then answer it.

How to use these prompts

Reflection works better with a little distance, so many people answer these at the end of the day or the week. Keep going past your first answer. The second or third thing you say is often closer to the truth.

  • Read the prompt aloud before you start recording
  • Stay with one prompt for the whole entry
  • When you run out, ask yourself why once more and keep talking
  • Come back to the same prompt in a month and compare the answers

Questions about self-reflection journaling

What's the difference between self-reflection and venting?

Venting says how you feel. Reflection goes one step further and asks why, or what you'd do next time. A minute of venting followed by one reflective question is a fine entry.

How often should I do self-reflection journaling?

Once a week is enough for many people to start noticing patterns. Daily works if your entries are short. The weekly reflection prompts are built for that rhythm.

Why answer reflection prompts out loud?

Talking is faster than writing for most people, so you get past the first polite answer sooner. Hearing yourself say something can also show you whether you believe it.

Think it through out loud

Answer a prompt by talking and Dawn Light keeps every word as a dated entry on your iPhone. With Plus, an entry can end with a follow-up question you answer out loud.

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